I could care less about whether or not baked cornbread has sugar in it or not. Because I really don't care for it all.
We grew up eating fried cornbread. That is one half of my favorite meal. I take two or three pieces with butter on them and put them in the bottom of a big bowl, then I pour my pintos all over them. Then I put about half a cup of diced raw onions on top. When I get down to the last piece of cornbread I pour molasses on it and whatever pinto juice and ham pieces are left over. My favorite meal all fits in a bowl (or two). Baked cornbread bores me to tears. I have heard different names for fried cornbread but they all sound half-yankee to me so I still just call it fried cornbread. Ain't no cake.
The first time I heard about a collard green sandwich and found out what it was, I knew that from there on out whenever I saw something advertised as "soul food" it really just meant poor country people food and that I would be happy eating there.
I know good and well there is an old poor country black man from Mississippi or Louisiana somewhere in my family tree because that is how I eat and that is how I fish. (I have 8 tackle boxes full of all the toys and gadgets but for the past 15 years I generally only fish with a cork and natural bait for fish that I can take home and eat.)
When nobody is around that I need to assert dominance over I put sugar on my grits. If it is a breakfast thing. Sugar on one half and pepper on the other. I grew up in the woods but mama was "from town".
I am sick to death of NC BBQ( Except for our little local outfit called Chirpy's, and it is mustard based.). Blasphemy I know. But I've ate enough of it to feed a small Caribbean nation for a year. Folks think they are accomplishing some spectacular when they make it but where I am from any 10 year old boy could make it better than 99% of the restaurants in NC and not think twice about it.
I would rather eat fried chicken livers and/or gizzards from a gas station (Texas Pete, two rolls, and a grape drink) than go to the Angus Barn or Ruth's Chris or any of that mess.
I don't give a crap whether banana pudding has meringue or whipped cream or nothing on it. Pudding is for children and geriatric hospital patients. Cake is for women. Men eat pie.
I can recite word for word from beginning to end the entire Eazy-Duz-It, Straight Outta Compton, Uncut Dope, and The Predator as well as a few other late 80s to mid-90s "gangsta rap" albums. I have a slightly left-leaning libertarian buddy who is black. He thinks it's funny to get my fat redneck overall-wearing butt drunk and then film me making videos to the music out in my shop. I'll never forget one morning he threatened to post one to Facebook until I reminded him of the video we made in my shop with his ex-wife.
The first year I was married the only Christmas present I got my wife was a two wheeled wheelbarrow.
I didn't like bourbon at all until about 15 years ago when a fella from Alabama introduced me to Knob Creek.
I have a list of dudes that I told my wife it was okay to marry after I die. If she deviates from the list I told her that I would haunt her. The first two dudes on the list are forum members.
My wife believes in ghosts.