Yes, BJJ has great control, I would never deny that. As I said before, BJJ is not new to me, and I trained far past what I did belt wise, then chose CSW to further my knowledge of ground work, mixed with striking and control. If you don't know who Erik Paulson is, I highly recommend you check him out. I've trained with him since 2000 when he would come to our academy about twice a year. My instructor was a BJJ Black Belt, and a 7th degree Black in Shin Ryu Japanese Jiu Jitsu, so I had a good grasp on what was what on the grappling front. I'm not here to change anyone's mind on what your preferred art is. I've trained with enough Jiu Jitsu guys to know, unless they are really high level, or against someone that doesn't know much, a good stand up dude will wear his ass out before he gets ahold for control, as that's what most are focused on. Then, we have to take in consideration, this is a street fight with no rules. Blades, bighting, etc. come into play. But yes, a Black Belt BJJ practitioner is a awful guy/gal to deal with. Also, the very reason I even mentioned the car in a parking lot deal, was we use to go outside and train in between my instructor and his wife's car. We would also go out in the field beside our academy and train in dirt and the gravel. It's an eye opener to just being in a controlled environment on a mat.
On to the 2nd part. Yes, if were close enough, we can both get to each other. Who says for sure they will be able to close the distance and get grips and play the game, if you get knocked out first. Maybe it's that easy against again, someone who knows no different, but when you have stand up AND clinch and ground knowledge, well, it may not be that easy.
Next, I never said I'm above going to the ground, I just do not want to. Yes, a solid BJJ guy is a handful when he gets ahold of you, but I'm not a fish out of water when it comes to that. Again, choices. I'm not saying I'm the cat's meow, but I've fought and trained fighters that were very good Jits guys, and they struggled like hell to take me down, even when I started with them having me against the cage. And then/if they got me down, again, I'm ok with that, as I have that knowledge, and I'm not worried about homies kicking me in the head while I'm down.
And I totally agree, Judo is a great art, but it's limited (just like Jiu Jitsu only is to me), but a Judo only guy will not fare well with a Jiu Jitsu guy on the ground.
Just an opinion from someone who has been there, done that, for a long time.