Apologized to my Dad

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Short story
After this weekend's experience I texted my Dad (he was working) "I'm sorry for all the BS I put you and Mom through as a kid. I should of been choked slammed through 4 tables repeatably. "

Full story
My wife, child, mother in-law,sister in-law (SIL) and sister in-law's friend went to Atlanta for said SIL's 18th birthday. We went to the Aquarium on Friday and Six flags on Saturday. We had to wear mask and workers were spraying down the areas at the aquarium and rides at the park.

SIL wanted to meet up with her ex boyfriend (19) who family move to Ga. They broke up but still talk, I stay out of it, not to sound like a pecker head but I don't care. In the end she is going to do what she wants. She and her friend ditch us halfway through the aquarium to hangout. We all go out to eat (caught them holding hands) and then back to the hotel. Wife and I have our own room but are next door. We hear yelling and door slam. I'm staying the heck out of it and minding my business at this point.

Most of you know I fly RC, good friend lives in Atlanta and bought a plane/parts. I brought them with me. As I'm walking out to meet up with my friend, SIL and I cross paths in the parking lot. I can tell she is upset and been crying. Dialogue went like this

Me "What the heck is going on"
SIL "I found nude pictures of some girl on his phone"
Me "I though ya'll were broken up?" **I'm trying to get caught up to speed which what will later be deem "Armageddon"**
SIL - " we are but we've been talking"
Me - "But you are broken up but talking, right?"
***Armageddon in 3...2...1"
SIL - goes 0-100 in 0.001 seconds "Wait....are you taking his side?..FU" storms off

Few hours later..
SIL and friend though it be smart to walk outside to get away. That's cool, hang out in the lobby, game room. We aren't in a good area and they are alone in the darkest, furthest part away from the hotel. The friend is tagging along to try to talk some sense in to her, I can appreciate that. I'm heading to the store to get some drinks and make 2 sweeps around the hotel to see where they are at. I find the Ex on my way out and asked what is going on and ask him where he lives. If close, I was going to take him home. He can't drive because he had a seizure recently. On the 2nd pass I see them, SIL see's me. She runs behind a old dumpster (picture below, 9 0 clock). I pull up, get out and try to reason (my mistake) with her in how I wasn't taking any side, I was trying to get all the information. In fact if he was doing this, then drop the dude and move on. I tell them both to get in the car or get inside it's not safe out here.

***side note.. My wife and I went to Six Flags 4 years ago. We got in at 2am and found 15 cop cars at the Gas station beside the hotel. They shared (indirectly) the parking lot. I asked the owners what was going on and they kept repeating "not our parking lot, not our side. Later While getting a drink from vending machine a LEO was at the desk and I asked him about the area. "stay in side when it's dark" was his words

There's more to it but I'm just jaw drop at her behavior. Their mom does everything she can and at time struggles with money. This is the same kid who we (three of us) go her a Saxophone years ago.

Does anyone have a Delorean who can actually hit 88 mph and know a guy name Doc?
 

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Your sil sounds like someone I know. She’ll dump a guy, start talking to him again, then lose her mind when she finds out he’s seeing or talking to someone else. You can’t reason with that kind of crazy, don’t even try.
 
Run Forest RUN!What did pops have to say about the apology after he got through laughing his butt off?
 
We went to the Aquarium on Friday
Are the whale sharks still there?

Sorry, but you're on your own with dealing with a teenage girl......:)

I apologized to my folks too, for being such and a-hole teen.
 
Collecting facts is pointless since you aren’t able to fix the problem, in these situations you’ve gotta jump right to supporting what you guess is the right decision. The right answer when she said she found pics wasn’t “you were on a break?” Or “are they from when you were together?” It’s “well it looks like you were right to kick him to the curb.”
 
I recommend lots of distance between most family members. Especially sisters in law. I named mine Hurricane Diane since a disaster always followed in her wake. Luckily she’s in Boston and we are here. That works well for me.
 
Short story
After this weekend's experience I texted my Dad (he was working) "I'm sorry for all the BS I put you and Mom through as a kid. I should of been choked slammed through 4 tables repeatably. "

Full story
My wife, child, mother in-law,sister in-law (SIL) and sister in-law's friend went to Atlanta for said SIL's 18th birthday. We went to the Aquarium on Friday and Six flags on Saturday. We had to wear mask and workers were spraying down the areas at the aquarium and rides at the park.

SIL wanted to meet up with her ex boyfriend (19) who family move to Ga. They broke up but still talk, I stay out of it, not to sound like a pecker head but I don't care. In the end she is going to do what she wants. She and her friend ditch us halfway through the aquarium to hangout. We all go out to eat (caught them holding hands) and then back to the hotel. Wife and I have our own room but are next door. We hear yelling and door slam. I'm staying the heck out of it and minding my business at this point.

Most of you know I fly RC, good friend lives in Atlanta and bought a plane/parts. I brought them with me. As I'm walking out to meet up with my friend, SIL and I cross paths in the parking lot. I can tell she is upset and been crying. Dialogue went like this

Me "What the heck is going on"
SIL "I found nude pictures of some girl on his phone"
Me "I though ya'll were broken up?" **I'm trying to get caught up to speed which what will later be deem "Armageddon"**
SIL - " we are but we've been talking"
Me - "But you are broken up but talking, right?"
***Armageddon in 3...2...1"
SIL - goes 0-100 in 0.001 seconds "Wait....are you taking his side?..FU" storms off

Few hours later..
SIL and friend though it be smart to walk outside to get away. That's cool, hang out in the lobby, game room. We aren't in a good area and they are alone in the darkest, furthest part away from the hotel. The friend is tagging along to try to talk some sense in to her, I can appreciate that. I'm heading to the store to get some drinks and make 2 sweeps around the hotel to see where they are at. I find the Ex on my way out and asked what is going on and ask him where he lives. If close, I was going to take him home. He can't drive because he had a seizure recently. On the 2nd pass I see them, SIL see's me. She runs behind a old dumpster (picture below, 9 0 clock). I pull up, get out and try to reason (my mistake) with her in how I wasn't taking any side, I was trying to get all the information. In fact if he was doing this, then drop the dude and move on. I tell them both to get in the car or get inside it's not safe out here.

***side note.. My wife and I went to Six Flags 4 years ago. We got in at 2am and found 15 cop cars at the Gas station beside the hotel. They shared (indirectly) the parking lot. I asked the owners what was going on and they kept repeating "not our parking lot, not our side. Later While getting a drink from vending machine a LEO was at the desk and I asked him about the area. "stay in side when it's dark" was his words

There's more to it but I'm just jaw drop at her behavior. Their mom does everything she can and at time struggles with money. This is the same kid who we (three of us) go her a Saxophone years ago.

Does anyone have a Delorean who can actually hit 88 mph and know a guy name Doc?

Your SIL sounds like my sister.

Best thing to do is just ignore it. Folks like that need the drama. They don't want to be happy. They ain't living if life isn't crazy. You can't fix them, and you'll wear yourself out trying.
 
All over America these episodes are taking place and if the SIL is not put in her place her life will be page after page of a Jerry Springer production. I swear I think they teach this kind of stupid in middle school and from there all must suffer for this young lady’s low self esteem. It’s apparent this girl has a vital person missing from her life and if no one steps up to the task she is doomed as so many are today. Good luck.
 
Run Forest RUN!What did pops have to say about the apology after he got through laughing his butt off?

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You actually tried to reason with an emoting female? You must have balls of steel.
I like to live dangerously.

Is she cute?
Im with Chad - is she hot?

Yes, until she starts talking about democratic socialism is different than socialism

Are the whale sharks still there?
Sorry, but you're on your own with dealing with a teenage girl......:)

I apologized to my folks too, for being such and a-hole teen.
Yes! I had forgotten how big they were. Pretty while how big that place is when it looks small on the outside.

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Yes, until she starts talking about democratic socialism is different than socialism


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Dumb girls have their advantages, but stupid ones are useless no matter how hot
 
Just tell your wife from now on we do things by ourselves, to eliminate all the drama.

undoubtedly your wife and her sister are nothing alike.
 
In my dumb teenage years, I saw this a few times. I was trying to be the sensitive and understanding type for them. I always ended up in the friend zone and she always went back to the guy.

One day I embraced my inner asshole and decided to have fun with it the next time it happened. I would say things like

Is she hotter than you?
What's she got that you havent got?
I wonder if she does things you dont do?
I bet she has more drama in her life than you do.

I could see the switch flip from crazy to full blown bat shit aint got nothing on me crazy.

Ah, the good old days.
 
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You could have said "He has naked pictures of ANOTHER GIRL on his phone?" followed by "He'd better not be spreading any naked pictures of you around!" Yeah, she wouldn't have been expecting that.
 
The know it all got kicked out of the house.

Her cell phone is paid for by her Mom. She has blocked her mom, my wife and her other sister. She took my wife's computer (which she let her borrow). My wife asked for it back but the SIL had blocked her because she is still made at my wife from what happen in GA. With the help of my mother in law I'm able to track her.

Few key strokes, I can locate her phone and know where she is. Her mom turns her phone off.

So I show up where she is staying and I give her two choices regarding the computer.

"But I won't be able to do my homework!?"

"Not my problem, work for and buy your self one."

Posting this from my wife's computer :D
 
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