19, blind and living with an abusive partner.

Elenaidan

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Just had a very stern conversation with a beautiful young lady in just that spot. Her family is elsewhere and she is here for school. She started dating my neighbors kid and then moved in with him. I have reason to believe he is screwing around with several other ladys while unprotected. He appears to have manipulated all three of them in different ways. He has a history of violence. Be praying for this girl. She is in a bad spot and nowhere to run at the moment. She seems to have her head on straight except for moving in with this loser. Darn sad.
 
I really hate to hear this. I hope she comes to her senses soon.
 
Sounds wierd to say hes screwing sround unprotected. Thsts pretty detailed. How do you know or is that getting to personal?
 
Screw that noise...iffn I lived closer, she would have a safe place to lay her head.
Praying for her...
 
As the old saying goes, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. Try your best to help her, but the only thing that's going to fix that problem is if she wants it fixed. I've dealt with similar things with my sister. She's bound and determined to always date the bad boy, and then wonders why they fool around on her and mess with drugs.
 
Sounds like ya'll need to mind your own business. I'm sure she is capable of dialing 911 all on her own....
OH... and I'm dying to know how you're so sure he's having unprotected sex..... you watching???
 
Mightyox04;n72386 said:
Sounds wierd to say hes screwing sround unprotected. Thsts pretty detailed. How do you know or is that getting to personal?

Hard to believe but his mom is the one that brought her over here to talk. His mom also knows the other two ladies. For the record, no I am not touching this crap with a forty foot pole. She just wanted to know if most men were like this A hole and what her options were locally to get away from this turdbucket.
 
11B CIB;n72513 said:
I wasn't aware those were offered in Braille

when you stated "Blind" at first I thought she was blind as in the being able to see. It wasn't mentioned again I assumed you meant she was "Blind to his infidelity"
 
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Majicmike;n72631 said:
when you stated "Blind" at first I thought she was blind as in the being able to see. It wasn't mentioned again I assumed you meant she was "Blind to his infidelity"

Still a good suggestion, as I'm sure the girl's entire family isn't blind.
 
Elenaidan;n72521 said:
Hard to believe but his mom is the one that brought her over here to talk. His mom also knows the other two ladies. For the record, no I am not touching this crap with a forty foot pole. She just wanted to know if most men were like this A hole and what her options were locally to get away from this turdbucket.

Tell her to call the local sheriffs department they almost all have a special domestic unit that has connections with women's shelters.
 
So is she physically blind or just another girl who likes bad boys?

LOL @ comments about having 'words' with the guy. If a girl wants to spread her legs for a bad boy, what good do you think having words with the guy will do? He will either ignore it and nothing will change, or somehow miraculously he'll change, and then she'll leave him for another bad boy. Remember, females decide who gets sex and who doesn't.
 
Lucky13bullets;n72672 said:
unless they hang out with bill cosby

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Lucky13bullets;n72672 said:
unless they hang out with bill cosby

And Ben Roethlisberger? or how ever the hell you spell that lol
 
Mom knows he's having unprotected sex?
Or where are you getting that part from?
 
Goofyfoot2001;n72743 said:
Hmmm, at 19 I had a lot of girlfriends.

While you were living with one of them?
 
Cowboy;n72654 said:
Tell her to call the local sheriffs department they almost all have a special domestic unit that has connections with women's shelters.

Thank you sir. Had not thought of that.
 
Additionally, if she's here for school; most colleges have resources available to assist with counseling and possibly housing arrangements.
Getting them out of the house is the first and most important step in any domestic situation. But, if they won't leave, there really isn't a permanent solution.
 
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xtp308;n73575 said:
Additionally, if she's here for school; most colleges have resources available to assist with counseling and possibly housing arrangements.
Getting them out of the house is the first and most important step in any domestic situation. But, if they won't leave, there really isn't a permanent solution.

Excellent suggestion and true that leaving must be her choice.
 
Elenaidan;n72521 said:
Hard to believe but his mom is the one that brought her over here to talk. His mom also knows the other two ladies. For the record, no I am not touching this crap with a forty foot pole. She just wanted to know if most men were like this A hole and what her options were locally to get away from this turdbucket.

Are they living with his Mom? If they are it sounds like Mom is the one that needs talking to more.
 
cold1;n74578 said:
Are they living with his Mom? If they are it sounds like Mom is the one that needs talking to more.

Nope. In an apartment.
 
Elenaidan;n72218 said:
Just had a very stern conversation with a beautiful young lady in just that spot. Her family is elsewhere and she is here for school. She started dating my neighbors kid and then moved in with him. I have reason to believe he is screwing around with several other ladys while unprotected. He appears to have manipulated all three of them in different ways. He has a history of violence. Be praying for this girl. She is in a bad spot and nowhere to run at the moment. She seems to have her head on straight except for moving in with this loser. Darn sad.

If it's any consolation, most people I know around that age bracket seem to enjoy being treated that way, and will rinse and repeat for about the next ten years. Eventually, though, they do seem to come to their senses.
 
Errant_Venture;n74811 said:
If it's any consolation, most people I know around that age bracket seem to enjoy being treated that way, and will rinse and repeat for about the next ten years. Eventually, though, they do seem to come to their senses.

A shame, ain't it.
 
drypowder;n72659 said:
So is she physically blind or just another girl who likes bad boys?

LOL @ comments about having 'words' with the guy. If a girl wants to spread her legs for a bad boy, what good do you think having words with the guy will do? He will either ignore it and nothing will change, or somehow miraculously he'll change, and then she'll leave him for another bad boy. Remember, females decide who gets sex and who doesn't.

Yeah I know. I always look at things like this thru the eyes of a dad.

Words is a nice word, for what was really intended, that really wasn't, words at all. :D
 
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Tailhunter;n83929 said:
Yeah I know. I always look at things like this thru the eyes of a dad.

Words is a nice word, for what was really intended, that really wasn't, words at all. :D

So "words" got that little lady in a new apartment close to NC State. The "Bad Boy's" mom actually made it happen this weekend. I think if she had known how much a dirt bag he was she would have not made those decisions. You can never base the assumed morals of a child on the known morals of their parent. Sometimes them apples roll down hill a bit after falling from the tree.
 
Elenaidan;n84131 said:
So "words" got that little lady in a new apartment close to NC State. The "Bad Boy's" mom actually made it happen this weekend. I think if she had known how much a dirt bag he was she would have not made those decisions. You can never base the assumed morals of a child on the known morals of their parent. Sometimes them apples roll down hill a bit after falling from the tree.

Cool.
 
I'm glad to hear the situation was resolved without injury to the girl. Maybe, just maybe, she'll smarten up some.
Props to the mom for handling her business...
 
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