Another Eloquent Backhand from Mike Rowe

As I said in the post just above this one I’m subject to a lot of conditions. But I don’t make excuses and I get my ass up and go to work every day.

Fair enough.

Your earlier posts did not differentiate between conditions and disabilities being a "crock" and how people respond to them being a "crock". I also have no respect for people who claim they are disabled when they are actually only unwilling. At they same time, there are a number of conditions that are not visually apparent that really can be partially or wholly disabling.
 
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Fair enough.

Your earlier posts did not differentiate between conditions and disabilities being a "crock" and how people respond to them being a "crock". I also have no respect for people who claim they are disabled when they are actually only unwilling. At they same time, there are a number of conditions that are not visually apparent that really can be partially or wholly disabling.

Fair enough but I think the differentiating line for the misunderstanding we seem to be having is that I’m talking about the nature of people telling everyone they have whatever they have as not only an excuse but as a means to garner preferential treatment especially in the work place and it’s being taken as someone who is callous and wants to see those with disabilities suffer.

Let me try this another way. Most of the people on here will agree that the military was stupid to lower the standards of troops just to allow women to qualify for certain roles.

But then there are a lot of people that think that is perfectly acceptable to force private industry to lower their standards to allow people with disabilities to qualify for those roles.

I’m saying that it’s one and the same. I don’t care who you are or what you are or what issues you have. If you can do the job to the level that’s required then do the job. If you can’t then go find somewhere else to work.

We have been forcing American industry and companies to lower themselves to the lowest common denominator (and with increased pay) for years and wonder why we are losing jobs to other countries. I guarantee you that the Mexican manufactures didn’t have to spend $20,000 extra to put in ramps and wheelchair accesses to their buildings and make sure there is adequate handicapped parking which adds to more grading cost or decreases access by the rest of the employees.

These new “invisible” disabilities are vying to be added to the ADA making it so that you can’t get rid of substandard performers that have IBS.

To me that’s disgusting.
 
I don't think anyone is saying that people with disabilities should just be tossed aside.

Back about 10-12 years ago or so I was working at my brothers restaurant in Winston. They were approached all the time to employ special needs people. They generally always had one on staff of varying degrees of mental disability. My brother and sister in law were of the mind "If they can be trained, then they can do the job." For the most part they were relegated to sweeping, moping, and doing janitorial stuff. At times one would be trained to help with prep work or the like. They were generally all just treated as any other staff member was.

Then one day the department of whatever that helps place special needs people approached him and asked if they would take on a blind person as a dish washer. They said "Absolutely not." and when pressed they finally had to say that while they wanted to help, it was a kitchen, there were hot pans, ovens, knives, and during a busy shift there wasn't going to be enough man power for someone to stand there and make sure the person didn't grab a hot pan (in restaurants it isn't rare for pans to go from cooking food, plating it, and then directly to the wash station to be cleaned and put back into service). The place where silverware was put was just two buckets, one for sharp knives, and one for everything else.

In short...I think most people are decent, our species hasn't lasted this long based on our evil side. So given the opportunity most companies will seek relatively amiable amenities for employees. With the rise of social media, I hold the same "the market will sort itself out" mentality. If it comes out that Chads company is hard on the handicapped, then people wont use his company...and if a baker refuses to make wedding cakes for gay people, if the market reacts strongly enough they would be out of business anyway.
 
Fibromyalgia = Hahahaha. Have they even proven that this is actually a thing yet?

I wonder the same thing. About ten years ago, my wife started experiencing some pain/soreness all around her torso. She goes to the doc and he magically diagnoses her with fibromyalgia and puts her on Cymbalta. Make a long story short, s#!+ went downhill quick from there (due to what we would later find out was side effects of the Cymbalta). I finally convinced her after about 2 years to stop the prescription, and within about 3 months she was fine with the exception of some long lasting side effects. I still hope to be able to give that doc a piece of my mind one day.
 
I wonder the same thing. About ten years ago, my wife started experiencing some pain/soreness all around her torso. She goes to the doc and he magically diagnoses her with fibromyalgia and puts her on Cymbalta. Make a long story short, s#!+ went downhill quick from there (due to what we would later find out was side effects of the Cymbalta). I finally convinced her after about 2 years to stop the prescription, and within about 3 months she was fine with the exception of some long lasting side effects. I still hope to be able to give that doc a piece of my mind one day.

I’ve heard similar stories from other people. The last thing that I read on the subject said that it has never been proven to be a real condition. It was a theory really to try and come up with a name for people who were having all of this phantom pain and other issues.

Some of the people that I know that were having these issues and didn’t believe in the diagnosis tried changing their diets and came out much better.

Gluten free and paleo were the 2 most common diets that had the biggest difference.
 
Let me try my hand at figuring out this “invivslble disability” thing.

I see i as the “I’m special, too” phenomenon that has swept our culture in the last 10-20 years. It starts at participation trophies and goes all the way up through wanting to be equally recognized for your bad condition as the person who is automatically recognized—such as a missing arm or whatever. Seriously—go to a concert. Everyone has a neck lanyard...even people in the fricken nose bleeds. Everyone has one so no one is special. It’s why I loathe Facebook and other social media. Everyone is vying to be the funniest, most spectacular, most Home & Garden perfect life, all for the attention. No one seems to be happy any longer with just being themselves, as big or as little as that might be in terms of recognition. It permeates all aspects of life. It’s where stolen valor is rooted. It’s a form of jealousy, really.

Have your problem and be content with it. You dont need a special colored ribbon day/week/month. You don’t need a special discount at the restaurant. You don’t need me to be “aware” of it. If I awkwardly stumble across your “disability” and make a fool of myself about it in one of a hundred ways to do so, that’s on me. Hopefully I’m man enough to apologize and move on.
 
I’ve heard similar stories from other people. The last thing that I read on the subject said that it has never been proven to be a real condition. It was a theory really to try and come up with a name for people who were having all of this phantom pain and other issues.

Some of the people that I know that were having these issues and didn’t believe in the diagnosis tried changing their diets and came out much better.

Gluten free and paleo were the 2 most common diets that had the biggest difference.
My wife has a problem with casein (a protein in milk) - some folks do. She is NOT lactose intolerant. Some other foods - caffeine, artificial sweeteners, chocolate - give her migraines. I mean, they will put her into the bed. Gluten bothers her only a little. No doc found any of that - it required lots of experimentation, and was not simple. It required testing individual ingredients since foods typically have multiple ingredients - e.g., milk and flour and sugar and eggs together in a baked good. Some docs used some of those terms like fibromyalgia with her, but without providing much help to find a root cause.

My niece, though - peanuts = anaphylaxis. Gluten causes her extreme joint pain that knocks her off her butt. When a young child eats some peanuts and has hives break out and their throat closes up - it's real.

Neither has EVER used any of this as an excuse for anything. They manage their own diets. They do need to know what is in food they are buying at a restaurant, so that it does not contain stuff they can't have. The only "special" thing my niece needs is no open peanuts near her. But the dietary effects are REAL, and can be fatal for my niece.
 
Possibly.. what were we talking about?

Here's another example of superior mindset. You may have seen Bubba at a local match, this was at Pappy's in Edgemoor:

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actually this is a good example of my issue with @Chdamn ”no protected people” logic. According to his statement earlier in the thread we should not have to make accommodations for disabled people, so this gentleman should not be able to use a chair that wasn’t available to other competitors just so he could participate like a “normie” I guess his “friends or family” should shoot the match for him.
 
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Serious question. WTF is an invisible disability?

I think it's something along the order of body odor or brain damage.

Something that you can't see, but you can detect as soon as you get with smelling/hearing range.
 
Wait I googled it and found a list.

  • Allergies and Food In-tolerances
  • Rheumatoid Arthritis
  • Cancer
  • Chronic Fatigue Syndrome
  • Fibromyalgia and Chronic Myofascial Pain
  • Depression and Mental Illness
  • Diabetes and other Blood Sugar Issues
  • Digestive Disorders (such as; IBS, colitis, Celiac, etc.)
  • Headaches, Migraines, etc.
  • Heart Conditions
  • Infertility
  • Lupus
  • Lyme Disease
  • Multiple Sclerosis
  • Neurological Diseases
  • Sjogren’s Syndrome
What a crock.
I am disappointed.... nay, offended that hemorrhoids didnt make the list...

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actually this is a good example of my issue with @Chdamn ”no protected people” logic. According to his statement earlier in the thread we should not have to make accommodations for disabled people, so this gentleman should not be able to use a chair that wasn’t available to other competitors just so he could participate like a “normie” I guess his “friends or family” should shoot the match for him.

I still think you’re missing my point. And the picture is actually a better example of my point than yours.

That man was allowed to shoot, not because they were forced to accommodate him, but because they wanted to. And that is a huge difference.

There is no law that requires a shooting range to provide reasonable accommodations for someone to shoot with their feet.

Everyone there wanted to let this man shoot because he was not going to allow his handicap to become an excuse and a disability.
 
I still think you’re missing my point. And the picture is actually a better example of my point than yours.

That man was allowed to shoot, not because they were forced to accommodate him, but because they wanted to. And that is a huge difference.

There is no law that requires a shooting range to provide reasonable accommodations for someone to shoot with their feet.

Everyone there wanted to let this man shoot because he was not going to allow his handicap to become an excuse and a disability.
We can agree to disagree on that point, because as you stated he was “allowed” to shoot, and according to you, because someone is born different, or has limitations they should only be “allowed” what other people are willing to accommodate, and any other burden should fall on friends and family. With your outlook it would have been perfectly fine for the range to tell this gentleman, no, even though you have worked out a way to be able to compete, we don’t want you to, so go home. And as far as employment goes this is more typically the case, employers don’t want to hire someone that needs even the least bit special treatment, as a general rule. God help the poor handicapped soul stuck in chads world who doesn’t have a support group of peoe to care for and accommodate them, because as you said, nobody should be responsible for helping them but friends and family, essentially if someone else can’t do it screw them. The gentleman shooting was able to because he was supported by everyone there, but I hate to be the one to break this to you but the rest of the world is not that supportive, in fact in general people are incredibly self serving, as is evidence by you being all butthurt you had to install a ramp (0mg:eek:) your absolute liberatarian ideals are no more practical than any other ideal, they don’t work when applied to every situation.
 
No...unless the rot has become overpowering. But you CAN generally hear brain damage as soon as the mouth opens. Hence "hearing" in my post.

;)
You do understand there are forms of brain damage that do it affect the speech centers, or intelligence correct? If you were to meet my son, you would not be able to tell by talking to him that his brain is affected, only in the way he moves and walks. But you do you and keep on being....sorry forgot we were in open forum again. I will leave it at good day sir
 
We can agree to disagree on that point, because as you stated he was “allowed” to shoot, and according to you, because someone is born different, or has limitations they should only be “allowed” what other people are willing to accommodate, and any other burden should fall on friends and family. With your outlook it would have been perfectly fine for the range to tell this gentleman, no, even though you have worked out a way to be able to compete, we don’t want you to, so go home. And as far as employment goes this is more typically the case, employers don’t want to hire someone that needs even the least bit special treatment, as a general rule. God help the poor handicapped soul stuck in chads world who doesn’t have a support group of peoe to care for and accommodate them, because as you said, nobody should be responsible for helping them but friends and family, essentially if someone else can’t do it screw them. The gentleman shooting was able to because he was supported by everyone there, but I hate to be the one to break this to you but the rest of the world is not that supportive, in fact in general people are incredibly self serving, as is evidence by you being all butthurt you had to install a ramp (0mg:eek:) your absolute liberatarian ideals are no more practical than any other ideal, they don’t work when applied to every situation.

You’re right. I would have been fine had they not allowed him to shoot although I would have been one of the ones that would have advocated to allow him to. But if there was a legitimate reason to not allow it I would have conceded.

I’m really not sure why your reply has to be snarky with regards to my distaste over having to install a ramp. If you could give me a valid and legitimate reason as to why I had to pay more money, which raises my overhead, to install a device that will never have a use I’d be willing to listen.

On that note the original ADA stated simply that you could not take a persons disability into account during the hiring process as long as they could perform the work with reasonable accommodations.

Seems fair right? Hell I even personally agree with that mindset. So what are reasonable accommodations? Cleverly left ambiguous. How much additional money should a business have to spend to accommodate someone? $500 a year? $10,000 a year?

That’s where it started. Then because adding ramps and enlarging doorways and reconfiguring bathrooms all to be able to hire someone with a wheelchair, when there was a candidate just as good who can walk wasn’t reasonable they changed building codes to force us all to spend money we shouldn’t have to spend.

And I really don’t understand the argument against saying that the responsibility of taking care of a disabled person belongs to the friends and family of that person. I didn’t say that others can’t help or shouldn’t, if they want to, but being forced to help is another matter.

What’s actually kind of funny to me is the argument we are having is exactly along the lines of what mike Rowe was taking about in his response.

I am questioning the necessity for the government to cause undo cost and forcing companies to be subject to the undue burden of that, as well as substandard performance and you are accusing me of hating people who have disease, physical or mental disabilities.

My issue started with a group of people now wanting to claim to the world “Look at me you inconsiderate Bastard’s I am the face of the invisible disability”.

I used the internet to find several resources that listed what those were and claimed it was a crock. Because you have a child with one of the more legitimate “invisible disabilities” you have decided that I’m a callous individual when you know absolutely nothing about me and what I’ve done for people that are truly disabled, whether mentally or physically.

I even went a step further and tried approaching this from a different way and brought up the military lowering their physical standards just to be able to accept women.

I guess we will have to agree to disagree that lowering standards and forcing private companies to employ people or preventing them from firing them is a good thing.
 
I think the point Chad is making is that the government should not be given the power to force companies to make accommodations for handicapped individuals. In the video shown, the people there all pitched in to make it happen and there was no governing body that forced them to at gunpoint to accommodate. I really don't think he is saying "screw handicapped people".

Having a big brother government enforce the "equal treatment" in the work place lends itself to some very awkward abuse. Like in his case where his office has zero handicapped employees, but are still required to install an expensive ramp "just because". So instead of giving employees a raise or a bonus, the money went to a slanted platform that is not necessary.

It may also lead to dangerous situations, like I mentioned in my restaurant situation...if they had pushed with the weight of the law to hire the blind person, then it could have led to third degree burns, deep lacerations, and other injuries. And for a business that is running on a shoe string budget, they cant afford that.

I do not believe that anyone is advocating that handicapped individuals be barred service for anything. But I think even with that, the market would sort things out if handled properly. If a business refuses to cater to the handicapped, then people will stop shopping there, and the business will close. You can see how militant we are about Dicks pulling a gun off the shelf, imagine if we found out that McDonalds refused to cater to people in wheelchairs!
 
I think the point Chad is making is that the government should not be given the power to force companies to make accommodations for handicapped individuals. In the video shown, the people there all pitched in to make it happen and there was no governing body that forced them to at gunpoint to accommodate. I really don't think he is saying "screw handicapped people".

Having a big brother government enforce the "equal treatment" in the work place lends itself to some very awkward abuse. Like in his case where his office has zero handicapped employees, but are still required to install an expensive ramp "just because". So instead of giving employees a raise or a bonus, the money went to a slanted platform that is not necessary.

It may also lead to dangerous situations, like I mentioned in my restaurant situation...if they had pushed with the weight of the law to hire the blind person, then it could have led to third degree burns, deep lacerations, and other injuries. And for a business that is running on a shoe string budget, they cant afford that.

I do not believe that anyone is advocating that handicapped individuals be barred service for anything. But I think even with that, the market would sort things out if handled properly. If a business refuses to cater to the handicapped, then people will stop shopping there, and the business will close. You can see how militant we are about Dicks pulling a gun off the shelf, imagine if we found out that McDonalds refused to cater to people in wheelchairs!

Dammit, stop explaining what I’m trying to say better than I did. Lol.
 
There are great organizations out there that help place those people with handicaps into employment positions. At least One of our members works for such a group. I find it admirable and if I had a position that could be safely filled by one I would hire them.

If I had wheelchair bound customers that visited my shop I would have installed a ramp. The cost would have been justified.

We actually spent more money last year than the ramp cost to repair trucks for a local volunteer fire and rescue squad because they didn’t have the money and wouldn’t have been able to operate.

We also donated money to a few groups. But that was all by choice.
 
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Come on brosef, he is running his business, and from what I have seen, running it well. It isn't like it put him out of business or anything.
 

Didn’t say I couldn’t. Doesn’t make it right.

I won’t stoop to your level of snarking but if you can’t make a legitimate and factual argument without resulting to Kermit memes maybe you don’t really have an argument to begin with.
 
Because you have a child with one of the more legitimate “invisible disabilities” you have decided that I’m a callous individual when you know absolutely nothing about me and what I’ve done for people that are truly disabled, whether mentally or physically.
My son, my wife, my mother, my aunt, my second wife who died and left me to raise 3 kids on my own. Your anecdotal “I knew a guy with cancer one time” story is very nice and I’m glad you could help him out. I am THE ONLY adult helping 4 handicapped people and I am tired. To have you and others come on here and go, those people can take what is graciously offered, but I shouldn’t HAVE to help because the government says so...it gets me rattled. I’m going to leave this one alone a bit because I really like this forum and don’t want to fall in to a banable offense. I know you are speaking from a place of ignorance and not one of malice.
 
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My son, my wife, my mother, my aunt, my second wife who died and left me to raise 3 kids on my own, I know more about people with “invisible disabilities than anyone on this forum. Your anecdotal “I knew a guy with cancer one time” story is very nice and I’m glad you could help him out. I am THE ONLY adult helping 4 handicapped people and I am tired. To have you and others come on here and go, those people can take what is graciously offered, but I shouldn’t HAVE to help because the government says so...it gets me rattled. I’m going to leave this one alone a bit because I really like this forum and don’t want to fall in to a banable offense. I know you are speaking from a place of ignorance and not one of malice.

And brother, no one here would ever want you to leave. And to be honest, if you ever needed >anything< as far as assistance I would guaranty that Chad would be up front willing to help and willing to do anything he could to help. Please don't take the angle that if someone believes the government shouldn't be involved to also mean they don't care about the plight of those afflicted. If you aren't a good person without the government forcing you to be so, then you really aren't a good person.
 
My son, my wife, my mother, my aunt, my second wife who died and left me to raise 3 kids on my own, I know more about people with “invisible disabilities" than anyone on this forum.

With all due respect, starting your argument with hyperbole makes your whole statement look like sheer hyperbole. There's no need to take legitimacy away from what you're arguing
 
ENOUGH...yall kiss.

Booger will have no division in his friends. He forbids it. You are both sexy, dashing, intelligent, men with great taste in friends and firearms. Now infract yourselves and love me.
 
That is amazing.

Reminds me of Hunter "Nubs" Cayll



Freaking amazing. How have I not heard of him before.

Not to make this political but if this was any other sport he would be a media darling. He’s good looking, well spoken and a fighter.
 
You do understand there are forms of brain damage that do it affect the speech centers, or intelligence correct? If you were to meet my son, you would not be able to tell by talking to him that his brain is affected, only in the way he moves and walks. But you do you and keep on being....sorry forgot we were in open forum again. I will leave it at good day sir

I am quite aware of this, thank you very much. Our oldest son was born with a brain issue affecting the development of the blood vessels in his brain which, fortunately, does not affect his cognitive ability and presents no increased risk of stroke/aneurysm. It does, however, affect his legs in an almost undetectable way.

You seen to have taken this personally. I can't do anything about that, but rest assured my posting had nothing to do with you and yours, nor any with disabilities, but rather the retard (meant in the very derogative form of the definition) of a young lady who insists on being an *ss in her postings.

She MAY have "invisible disabilities", but that's no excuse for intentionally being a rude b*tch.
 
I am quite aware of this, thank you very much. Our oldest son was born with a brain issue affecting the development of the blood vessels in his brain which, fortunately, does not affect his cognitive ability and presents no increased risk of stroke/aneurysm. It does, however, affect his legs in an almost undetectable way.

You seen to have taken this personally. I can't do anything about that, but rest assured my posting had nothing to do with you and yours, nor any with disabilities, but rather the retard (meant in the very derogative form of the definition) of a young lady who insists on being an *ss in her postings.

She MAY have "invisible disabilities", but that's no excuse for intentionally being a rude b*tch.
Fair enough, thank you for the clarification.
 

I've been staying out of the pissing match since it is obviously an emotional issue for you, but that meme is truly ignorant. Large corporations lobby for more regulations in many cases because they have the resources to comply while small and new business may not. This goes for financial regulations and ADA issues. Who has more lawyers and accountants, a Fortune 100 company or Chadmn? Who can more easily afford a special handicapped or Trannie bathroom at their locations, Walmart or the husband and wife that are trying to open a small retail store? Why do you think these big corporations support laws and regulations that cost them money?

And finally why is chadmn or any other individual burdened with a debt for life on the birth of a handicapped person? While it would be nice if everybody would help less fortunate people what makes it right to coerce people with the threat of gov't force to pay for others' misfortunes? Put more cruelly why should one man or family have to do with less because another human was born?

And not to pick on handicapped people per se, these truths go for pretty much all recipients of social welfare programs. And recipients of means-tested progams for that matter.
 
I've been staying out of the pissing match since it is obviously an emotional issue for you, but that meme is truly ignorant. Large corporations lobby for more regulations in many cases because they have the resources to comply while small and new business may not. This goes for financial regulations and ADA issues. Who has more lawyers and accountants, a Fortune 100 company or Chadmn? Who can more easily afford a special handicapped or Trannie bathroom at their locations, Walmart or the husband and wife that are trying to open a small retail store? Why do you think these big corporations support laws and regulations that cost them money?

And finally why is chadmn or any other individual burdened with a debt for life on the birth of a handicapped person? While it would be nice if everybody would help less fortunate people what makes it right to coerce people with the threat of gov't force to pay for others' misfortunes? Put more cruelly why should one man or family have to do with less because another human was born?

And not to pick on handicapped people per se, these truths go for pretty much all recipients of social welfare programs. And recipients of means-tested progams for that matter.
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