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So my wife and I had a phenomenal getaway, however I came back feeling different about alot of things, which I think are worth sharing.
Don't be burdened by responsibility, we have not taken a vacation in several years. That is a mistake. You need to get away, unplug... I didn't watch the news for almost a week, don't care to now either.
We bought a house 5 years ago that we have done a lot of work to, enjoying it in the process, however it has kept us from enjoying each other... there's always something else to be done, fixed or worked on with a house that is older on 20 acres. I didn't want to pay people to do the work because I wanted to do it and save the money, at a loss of time.
If responsibilities become burdens you need to relieve yourself of them to whatever extent you can. I came home and looked at things in the house completely different. It doesn't serve a purpose or need, it's just clutter and needs to go.
If I died tommorow, I'd be leaving my wife a overwhelming burden to deal with as far as property to maintain and deal with... I think we will be downsizing our property and possessions. Scandinavian Death Cleaning is now a phrase in our house.
Fortunately we both feel the same way since returning.
Don't be burdened.
Do the things you want to do.
If you can't do them, change your course so you can.
Don't be burdened by responsibility, we have not taken a vacation in several years. That is a mistake. You need to get away, unplug... I didn't watch the news for almost a week, don't care to now either.
We bought a house 5 years ago that we have done a lot of work to, enjoying it in the process, however it has kept us from enjoying each other... there's always something else to be done, fixed or worked on with a house that is older on 20 acres. I didn't want to pay people to do the work because I wanted to do it and save the money, at a loss of time.
If responsibilities become burdens you need to relieve yourself of them to whatever extent you can. I came home and looked at things in the house completely different. It doesn't serve a purpose or need, it's just clutter and needs to go.
If I died tommorow, I'd be leaving my wife a overwhelming burden to deal with as far as property to maintain and deal with... I think we will be downsizing our property and possessions. Scandinavian Death Cleaning is now a phrase in our house.
Fortunately we both feel the same way since returning.
Don't be burdened.
Do the things you want to do.
If you can't do them, change your course so you can.