I don't have access to an FNX or FNX Tactical, but think the FNX line uses a captured recoil spring assembly, which doesn't let you change to a lighter or heavier spring. You'll have to go a different route.
- You can leave the slide locked back for a week or so, and you'll see some spring degradation. Do it for another week or two more and you might be able to use lighter loads. And in case anyone questions this possible solution, the FNX-45 Tactical users on the FN Forum do this when running suppressors, to weaken the recoil spring assemblies enough to make the guns cycle properly.
Leaving a coil spring compressed near or at its design limit -- called its
elastic limit -- will degrade the spring, and it'll lose some strength. Note: not all coil springs (such as magazine springs) are compressed that far in normal use, but recoil springs probably will be at or near that limit when locked back. The longer they're left locked back, the more degradation can take place. (Some high-cap magazine springs are also at or near their design limits when fully loaded.)
While Glock doesn't have springs for the FNX line, they do offer some guides rods and springs for Glocks, and additional recoil springs that are not "captured" assemblies. I found that I could swap my FNS-40 and Glock 38 recoil spring assemblies. (The Glock 38 uses the same guide rod assembly as the Glock 19 and Glock 23, for example, and Glock adjusts the weight of the the slides to compensate for the differen calibers being shot.)
You'll have to do some measuring to be sure. (If you have friends with Glocks, you might get them to help you do some comparisons. Then, you might find a separate "Glock" guide rod from Wolfe and some suitable springs that will offer you another option.