I don't think anyone is showing apathy, especially towards the spouse and children. The poster has a criminal background and his home was targeted. I am not a detective but I would guess that someone from his past has found him and sending a message. No honor among thieves, you know, that kind of stuff. His wife and children just happen to be in the way.
It's apathy by degree. I highly suspect that if your home were to be shot up, you wouldn't want folks first reaction to be to assume you'd caused it.
Furthermore, it's not a terribly broad accusation, I've only got like two people in mind...
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