We brought my dad home from the hospital today. I’ve been down here over a week now. He had two visits to the ER for paracentesis, to drain malignant ascites (I’ve been stretching my vocabulary the past month). His metastatic colon cancer is in its last stages; he has a lot going on, all bad. Liver failure is in progress. I don’t know how much longer he has on this earth with us; not long, from the looks of things. He wanted to go home, and I accomplished that much for him. Actually, I just initiated it - the Lord got him home, because we weren’t sure he would survive the trip. It’s been a long hard road, and it’s not quite over yet. I appreciate all the prayers in the other thread https://www.carolinafirearmsforum.com/index.php?threads/could-use-some-prayers-for-my-dad.45600/ Means a lot.
As an aside: we love to gripe about the prep and the irritation and everything - I know that I complain about it too - but GET YOUR DAMN COLONOSCOPY. He didn’t get one at some point early on, when he should have (back when the prep REALLY sucked). It probably would have headed all this off, or at least greatly increased survival probability. Now I know that 82 is a good life, and he has other health issues also - but we had a decent handle on them, so this is kind of premature. And...it sucks. I know that I and the rest of the family did a lot. I know it objectively, and people tell me so. But I’ll always feel like I let him down in some way. He was a simple farmer, dedicated to his Lord and his family (which is not a bad summary at all). I am not-a-medial-doctor doctor but he figured I could come up with an answer to whatever he needed, and I couldn’t for this one. That will ride with me the rest of my days. Dottye still is the same way concerning her mom from 3.5 months ago.
Sorry about the stream-of-consciousness; been running on fumes for a while. The real painful grind is setting in. Thanks for listening.
As an aside: we love to gripe about the prep and the irritation and everything - I know that I complain about it too - but GET YOUR DAMN COLONOSCOPY. He didn’t get one at some point early on, when he should have (back when the prep REALLY sucked). It probably would have headed all this off, or at least greatly increased survival probability. Now I know that 82 is a good life, and he has other health issues also - but we had a decent handle on them, so this is kind of premature. And...it sucks. I know that I and the rest of the family did a lot. I know it objectively, and people tell me so. But I’ll always feel like I let him down in some way. He was a simple farmer, dedicated to his Lord and his family (which is not a bad summary at all). I am not-a-medial-doctor doctor but he figured I could come up with an answer to whatever he needed, and I couldn’t for this one. That will ride with me the rest of my days. Dottye still is the same way concerning her mom from 3.5 months ago.
Sorry about the stream-of-consciousness; been running on fumes for a while. The real painful grind is setting in. Thanks for listening.