@BigWaylon
A few thoughts, if I may, on
men in general:
They crave responsibility. The more masculine that responsibility is the better. Is there something he could "provide" for the family? Growing a garden, for example, where he grows food for the dinner table.
Voluntary hardship. They want to know they are tough and able to hack it. Working out, manual labor, and outdoor recreation are great ways to have him test himself, strive against something meaningful, and even have some father-son bonding in the process. Plus, he has a lot of energy to burn, and not burning it will make anyone agitated. He may not know it, but he wants callouses on his hands and sweat on his brow. It sharpens and hardens us physically and mentally. Eating half way decent goes hand in hand with physical exertion, and it can affect our energy levels and mood.
Modern society lacks the boy to man initiation. It leaves men frustrated and aimless in many cases. You may could read a book together like "Wild at Heart" by John Eldredge. If you haven't read it, I would highly recommend it. It is Christian's view on masculinity.
One last thought... The internet and being "plugged in" constantly. A lot of young folks wrap up a lot of their time and identity in their virtual lives and Covid has exacerbated that. Not only is that not good for them, but they are likely exposed to all sorts of damaging material along the way. We all enjoy the real world more anyways, even if we don't know it.
Keep fighting the good fight, brother.