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Mike79

Mike79

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I'm not a praying man so not posting in the prayer request thread. I get along with this crowd okish hahaha.

The month of March has been a tough one. I lost my job on the 11th had my mother's funeral on that Saturday. Hardest thing I have ever had to do to that point in my life...placing my mother's urn in the ground a covering her in dirt with my bare hands. This last one is a very personal and painful event(s). I was married on a Wednesday and every Wednesday morning I'd tell my wife "happy Wednesday". Last Wednesday after I rolled over in bed and told her she tells me she is moving out. I am in Western NC getting her settled in her apartment now. Alot going on and I'd rather not get deeper into it at the moment.
If you read all that shit THANK YOU! I'm asking for some positive vibes nothing more nothing less.
I do need help finding homes for my blue heelers and selling all the remaining household shit...
 
Hawt damn that is a lot of shit at once. Sending the good vibes, brotha.

You’ll come out OK. Just keep your head up and move forward.
 
Mike79 said:
I'm not a praying man so not posting in the prayer request thread. I get along with this crowd okish hahaha.

The month of March has been a tough one. I lost my job on the 11th had my mother's funeral on that Saturday. Hardest thing I have ever had to do to that point in my life...placing my mother's urn in the ground a covering her in dirt with my bare hands. This last one is a very personal and painful event(s). I was married on a Wednesday and every Wednesday morning I'd tell my wife "happy Wednesday". Last Wednesday after I rolled over in bed and told her she tells me she is moving out. I am in Western NC getting her settled in her apartment now. Alot going on and I'd rather not get deeper into it at the moment.
If you read all that shit THANK YOU! I'm asking for some positive vibes nothing more nothing less.
I do need help finding homes for my blue heelers and selling all the remaining household shit...
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Wow man, all I can say is, one step at a time and keep your head up, it's going to be alright.
 
Hard to say say anything that sounds correct or not resembling bull shi$$.
You have had a lot of very difficult issues to deal with. To say the least about how life changing they are.
I don't pray very much for any kind of help, but I do for showing my gratitude for being blessed.
I will pray for you because you my fried do need some help.
Try in your heart and mind to struggle every day to see something positive that may help you move forward no matter how small in might be.

Peace be with you.
 
Bro, if you need to stop by, I got beer and a fire and place to crash. Call me if you need to.

Not sure which part of WNC you are in but I'm around the Waynesville, Clyde area
 
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Any one of those things alone would make lesser men give up. After all three and you are still here. That takes strength and heart my friend. Keep waking up, getting out of bed, and putting one foot in front of the other.
 
You have my sincere condolences regarding your mom, jobs and women are a dime a dozen, but I know it stings. Hopefully you have good times coming! Even though you are not a praying man, know that I will be praying for you. Stay strong and holler if you need something.
 
Wife wants out, lick your wounds and just say bye. Sorry for the loss of your Mother. You will never be over that,loss my Father in 1993, think about him every week. Just try to concentrate on the good times. Feel sure you will find another job. I'll say a prayer that you find peace and guidance. Take care .
 
Positive energy. These things happen. These things suck. These things will fade over time. You got this. We got you (yes we like to read it all)

Tomorrow is another day.
 
You have had a lot happen in a short time. I have been in a similar situation myself. Unfortunately men do not hve the same support system as women. You will most likely go thru some depression. It is overwhelming but you have to find a way to be around people and not be alone. Go out and actively seek a job, one that keeps your mind off of your situation for 8 hours a day. Then surround yourself with positive people like a group. Stay clear of lonely people, bars, etc. It will take time to heal sir. This will be a process.

As for the wife you have to understand she has been selfish. She did not consider the trauma of the passing of your mother or cared. Do not give up and do not give in to feeling sorry for her by blaming yourself. Don’t beg her to come back. Again she has been selfish. You do not need someone like that. There will be other partners. It will take time. And by all means seek counseling if necessary. There is no shame in getting help. Best of luck sir.
 
One day at a time brother, one day at a time.
My deepest condolences to you and your family regarding your Mom. I went through it in 2019 myself. Remember the good times, and hold that close.
Lots of emotions are heading your way, but remember, every day is a new day, so try and make something positive happen on each one.
You have a support system right here in our own little spot in the forum, so reach out if need be.
And get out there today for a little wind therapy, we all know how much that helps.
Positive thoughts and vibes sent your way brother.
 
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You have had a lot happen in a short time. I have been in a similar situation myself. Unfortunately men do not hve the same support system as women. You will most likely go thru some depression. It is overwhelming but you have to find a way to be around people and not be alone. Go out and actively seek a job, one that keeps your mind off of your situation for 8 hours a day. Then surround yourself with positive people like a group. Stay clear of lonely people, bars, etc. It will take time to heal sir. This will be a process.

As for the wife you have to understand she has been selfish. She did not consider the trauma of the passing of your mother or cared. Do not give up and do not give in to feeling sorry for her by blaming yourself. Don’t beg her to come back. Again she has been selfish. You do not need someone like that. There will be other partners. It will take time. And by all means seek counseling if necessary. There is no shame in getting help. Best of luck sir.
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I agree with most of this however, there is alot untold with the situation with my wife and I. Please refrain from passing judgment especially in a situation with very little of the big picture. I appreciate the support from all of you. THANK YOU!
 
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