Dating site/man rant

Millie, if you want us to, a few of us will get together and go out and find you a man.
We will leave him at your front door. The rope burns and skin tears from the duct tape when you take it off will heal in no time.
He will probably be real glad to see you.
 
JT said:
"Hot" is in the eye of the beholder.

Take your own advice and "get on with your life" and enjoy the blessings of living.
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Yes, dear......
 
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bondjamesbond said:
Millie, if you want us to, a few of us will get together and go out and find you a man.
We will leave him at your front door. The rope burns and skin tears from the duct tape when you take it off will heal in no time.
He will probably be real glad to see you.
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Thanks, I will keep this charming offer in mind! :)
 
Slacker said:
A female on this web site makes me think of the old saying "happier than a fat girl in the infantry barracks."

You must be doing it wrong.
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I've been told many times I'm doing it wrong....lol.
 
Hammer21b said:
and if you’re happy with yourself and it doesn’t, you’re out nothing and still happy! My .02!
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I'm pretty happy with who I've turned out to be, actually. If it doesn't happen, I'll still be happy, and at least I'll know I tried.....I did what I could do. I've made a few friends along the way, and that's a good thing.
 
Chdamn's Wife said:
If he wasn’t willing to take the extra few steps into the room to look for you, there are probably other things he wouldn’t put in the effort to do. And ain’t nobody got time for someone like that. Sounds like you are better off, but don’t give up hope. Good things come to those who wait.
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You do realize my time is short, right? I'll be on medicare in a few months. LoL.
But, I do see your point and this experiment will be over in a few weeks and I'll be fine. It's been interesting.
 
I met my wife on a dating site and my sister met her husband on one. There are good people out there. Its about weeding out the garbage(which there is far more of). It started off rocky...Lots of money grubbers, single with kids and no job, and flat out psycho nut jobs, but eventually i found my wife and i thank god for her daily. Only thing id recommend to you is Keep your pics up to date and dont take misleading photos that you know will dissapoint in the first meet up. Cant tell you how many girls sent me pics with kitty ears or angel halos etc. Just be you and be calm and patient. When its meant to work it will. Dont get discouraged and cancel the account. There are new people added daily and it might take some time. Focus on a guy you can get along with that will also get along with you. The rest sorts itself out. fwiw, i was on for 2 years before i met my wife. Hang in there millie, im rooting for ya!
 
Millie said:
I'm not fond of them, but it did seem to be the best way to go about it. Not lots of men in my tiny town.
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You go to FayetteNam all the time, snag you one from there and put him in the trunk.
He'll be just like a puppy when you let him out, so happy to see you.
 
I got to the range 30min late due to construction traffic, found Millie inside. I'm too big to toss in the trunk. Married since 1989.
 
Dating sites are set up to fail. People lie about who they are, what they look like, what their opinions are.
Get out of your house, meet people in person. Join a church, a club, a group of people that meet other people in person.
You want to find another person to communicate with, you have to work at it.
Stop blaming men for all your problems, if this was true, why are you looking for one?
There thats the end of my class for today, no charge for admission. :)
 
Tailhunter said:
Get out of your house, meet people in person.
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I do meet these men in person, duhhh.....how was I sitting in a restaurant waiting for one if I wasn't out of the house??
 
Ben W. said:
Conway?? Are you the girl I've been texting with??? lol... There's someone out there for ya, don't give up hope yet.
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I have actually run across someone I already knew on one of my dating sites. He was matched with me, and I was shocked to see a familiar face! It was pretty funny.
 
Millie said:
I do meet these men in person, duhhh.....how was I sitting in a restaurant waiting for one if I wasn't out of the house??
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You are missing the whole point.
When you try something for a period of time and you are not getting the results you want, you don’t continue to do the same thing.
Have you met one person where it has worked for you?
 
From what I've heard (like most things) its gotten much worse. Online dating was actually fantastic when it first came out.
 
Tailhunter said:
When you try something for a period of time and you are not getting the results you want, you don’t continue to do the same thing.
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I think I stated above that I'm calling it quits.....
 
Tailhunter said:
You are missing the whole point.
When you try something for a period of time and you are not getting the results you want, you don’t continue to do the same thing.
Have you met one person where it has worked for you?
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Sounds to me like that is what she is saying. She is getting ready to go a different route. At least that is what I get from what she said.


Too slow on the keys again. Ya beat me to it @Millie
 
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GeorgeBush said:
From what I've heard (like most things) its gotten much worse. Online dating was actually fantastic when it first came out.
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I guess I waited too long, but I was busy......lol.
 
Schattenreiter said:
Sounds to me like that is what she is saying. She is getting ready to go a different route. At least that is what I get from what she said.


Too slow on the keys again. Ya beat me to it @Millie
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That's correct, Tim. Thanks for reading my post and comprehending what I meant!
 
Tailhunter said:
Have you met one person where it has worked for you?
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Why would I still have continued to look if I had found a person? Hmmmmm.......just looking for ONE guy, not a harem. (Or whatever the equivalent is for women.)
I have made some friends, though.
 
I'll mirror what some folks upstream have said...it will happen when you arent looking.

When I met my wife we were in the same training class working for Pepsi. She was smoking hot, but we were both seeing other people at the time. We became "smoking buddies" as we would go take smoke breaks together and discuss our lives/relationships. Fast forward a bit of time I was inviting a girl from work to go to a street festival in Winston, and she invited my wife to come along. I didnt think I had a chance in the world with her, so I had moved on. After a bit of "liquid courage" I went out and was dancing in the street with this "other" girl, and it kinda made my wife jealous. We all went back to my place afterwards to chill, and the other lady went home and my wife stayed.

So I had totally given up on my wife even giving me the time of day, but things worked out so totally different than I expected that night, and now years later, I couldnt be happier my "aim" was off that night. So, yeah, just enjoy your life. Go to the range, cook, do fun stuff. Before long you will probably meet up with some dude at Battery Oaks who thinks he can out shoot you and you'll say "AIght, if I win, you buy me a drink, if you win, Ill buy you one." then 6 months later we will all be at your wedding wearing tactical gear and our best BBQ guns.
 
Etruett said:
Why don't you and @gunbelt just go ahead and lock on to one another and be done with it? I'll even spring for a bottle of champagne for the first night and a tube of ben-gay for the next day and you don't even have to provide me with a video. I think you two are made for each other. Seriously.
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We're both looking for young playthings!
 
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