Personal Story - Garage Break-in (Lessons Learned)

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This story may be a little long, but ever since the event took place 3 months ago I have put a lot of thought into what transpired, what I did right (maybe?) and what I did wrong, and what I have done afterwards to HOPEFULLY minimize the chances of it happening again. It is my hope that I can offer our members some things to think about for their own security, and maybe get some discussion going in critiquing my actions before, during, and after the event took place. I hope you take the time to read this, and I encourage feedback! THANKS in advance!!

I have been fortunate in my 55 years to have had very little experience with break-ins or for that matter anything of real value being stolen from me. I think a major reason for this is that I tend to be little overly security focused. I am a fanatic about locked doors (home and vehicle). My homes have always had a monitored security systems. And I try to not leave items visible/accessible (home and vehicle) that would usually tempt a thief. But even with this heightened attention to personal security we had a break-in to our garage recently. Not only did we have a break-in, but it was while we were home (early AM), AND the "bad-guy" was still in the garage when I made entry.

The Break-In (short version):
  • Around 5:45 AM I was just getting out of the shower. My wife came in and told me that our alarm had just (within 2 -3 minutes) gone off and it indicated the garage door (side door to backyard patio) was open. She had silenced the alarm (Lesson #1 below).
  • I retrieved my pistol (Glock 30SF) and went down the stairs and through the kitchen towards the inside garage access door. As I approached the door, I heard a noise in the garage. To be honest until that moment I wasn't expecting to find anything wrong. I immediately double-checked that I had a round chambered. Without much more thought, I quickly turned the dead-bolt, flipped on the light switch and opened the door. As the door was opening, I yelled something to the effect of "I am armed and will shoot your ass!!" There was a loud noise by the door to the outside patio. It is located in a little "alcove" of the garage that is out of sight from the door into the kitchen where I was. I immediately ran down the steps and around the corner towards the door. When I got to the door it was still moving and I heard the aluminum fence gate (backyard to front yard) slam shut. I continued to pursue, until I got through the gate and on my driveway. I never actually saw the person, but I know I was within 20 feet of him! It was very dark and lightly misting rain, so I decided to go back inside and yell to my wife to call 911. (Lesson #2)
  • When I knew my wife had called 911, I grabbed my large flashlight (still armed) and went back outside to look around. I noticed about 4 items that had been stashed on the other side of the fence. There was also a small box of my cordless drills and impacts that he(?) had dropped by the garage door in his haste to leave. LUCKILY, I was able to interrupt his plans before anything was actually stolen! (Lesson #3)
  • The police arrived 25 MINUTES LATER!! (part of lesson #1 and #2). He swept my yard and the neighbors. I told him I was pretty sure nothing was stolen. By this time the items outside were pretty wet from the light rain. We discussed the mode of entry (details in Lesson #4). I had touched the door knobs (inside and out). So basically, he said that he would issue a report, but there was not really anything else he could do. (NOTE: I had secured my weapon as the police officer was arriving. I did tell him that I had a license to conceal carry and that the gun had been secured.)
  • I did several more inspections inside the garage and am positive nothing was missing. There are a lot of ways that this could have been A LOT worse. We were lucky!
Lesson #1 - Alarm System:
For the past 25 years or so, I have always had a monitored security system. Until this event, the only time the alarm has gone off was as a result of accidental activation, or problems with the system equipment. The system in our current house was pretty old when we bought it. Our monitoring service did some minor updates when we moved here 9 years ago (20 year old house). It is a fairly trouble-free system, but over the last couple of years we get trouble alerts because of things like remote battery power loss, wireless cell phone communication errors, etc. These trouble alerts result in a loud constant alarm from our keyboard panel. They definitely get you attention and results in us quickly re-activating the alarm. Since this is only a local alarm, we don't get a call from the monitoring service.

So, when the alarm went off for this event, my wife quickly deactivated the alarm. But since this was an actual door being opened you would think that the monitoring system would have been contacted and the police called!! Unfortunately, we found out later that all of our doors to the outside were programmed with a delay. This had been done by the previous owner to allow access through any door when the alarm was set, to give plenty of time to turn off the alarm. So, when my wife immediately cancelled the initial alarm, there was nothing picked up by the monitoring service!

Resolution: We have since had a complete overhaul of our security system equipment to minimize trouble alerts. We had all of the outside doors programmed to immediately set off the alarm system upon opening, which will contact the monitoring service without delay. The only door we access when we get home is our kitchen door and that remains on a delay. We also know now to look at the details on the keypad control panel before deactivating the alarm.

Lesson #2 - Communicating w/ 911:
I wasn't very happy that it took 25 minutes for the police to arrive since the local precinct is only 5 minutes away. After looking back on the series of events, I can "sort of" understand the delay. At the time I was angry at my security monitoring service, but it wasn't their fault (Lesson #1 above). When I asked my wife to call 911, I told her we had been broken into and the "perp" was gone. The 911 operator only communicated to the police that we had been broken into, but there was no "bad-guy"! Hence, the lack of urgency! Maybe we should have communicated that I had encountered the bad-guy and wasn't sure of his location and that he might still be on our property. Bottom-line, always be prepared to not see LEO re-reinforcements in a timely fashion!

Lesson #3 - Visible Access to your Assets:
My garage is (unfortunately) a large storage building! In hindsight, this may have slowed down the bad-guy's ability to quickly grab items of value. After reviewing the few pieces that were grabbed and taken outside, they all had one thing in common. They were easily seen through the windows of my large garage door. He obviously used a flashlight to look through the windows and see what he could grab quickly.

Resolution: 1) I'm planning to have a reflective film installed on the garage door windows.You can still see out from inside the garage, but the outside has a reflective surface that prevents looking in. Especially, at night with a flashlight. Should have done this already! 2) I leave the backyard corner floodlights on at night. Plan to install motion detectors soon.

Lesson #4 - Entry Access:
The door that was used for entry had a medium sized pet door installed by the previous owner. As "anal" as I am about security, I never thought of that as a entry point. I am pretty sure the bad-guy saw the door when he looked through the garage door windows. The pet door was pushed up and open, and the dead-bolt had been turned. No forced entry. It wasn't big enough for a person to get through, but just big enough for a head and arm to wiggle through to turn the locks. The police officer confirmed that this happens a lot more than most people know. Needless to say that this door has been "updated" to prevent easy access. Maybe a battering ram, but nothing less!!

Most Important Lesson Learned:
All of the lesson above are important. It is amazing what you overlook, or don't think about, until you have something like this happen to you. But the items above are the physical fixes.

Now I deal with the psychological impact! This event caused me a few sleepless nights thinking about how close I came to actually coming face-to-face with a bad-guy in my house with a loaded handgun in my hand. All it would have taken is for that bad-guy to have been out in the middle of my garage and not by the door, and this event might have ended A LOT different! How would I have handled it?

I have always been around firearms. I am a FIRM believer in the 2nd Amendment and everyone's right to protect themselves! But I REALLY never actually thought that I would be put into this situation. I am very familiar with my handguns. I practice at the range. I stay on top of the laws governing my use of firearms. But AGAIN, what if....

Bottom line.... Stay vigilante, and always be prepared! You never know!!

Hope this helps some of you! Let me hear from you!
 
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So many mistakes, so little time......

Everything you have mentioned is errors in hindsight. I "should have done this or that"....... It's good to look back over an incident but the emphasis needs to be on foresight..

I was once "elected" the neighborhood watch leader and asked to review several houses and evaluate their "level of security". That was the shortest job I've ever had. When I can break into EVERY house in the neighborhood with a credit card there is no security, only opportunities for thieves..

After giving each homeowner a list of suggestions all I got was, "do you have any idea what this or that will cost"?? Nothing was ever done to improve and thank God the crooks haven't discovered us yet.......
 
Thanks for sharing this, lots of topics to think about. I am glad nothing was taken and you did not have to confront the BG, as you stated that could have turned out much differently.
 
What inspired my wife and I to take home security more seriously and arm ourselves was a garage break-in that occurred while the alarm was turned off to accommodate weekend guests. Fortunately, we did not encounter the bad guy(s) and all that was taken was a change purse. But the event was a wake-up call for both of us. We are much more vigilant now.

Thank you for sharing your experience.

Oh, one thing I have learned: if the perps are still in your home, tell the dispatcher you have a home invasion - use that term as it communicates the urgency of the situation. If the bad guys have left - report the burglary.
 
How would you have handled it?

Give the thief orders. If he complies, great. If he runs, you have to let him go. If he charges, bullets are cheap.
 
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Gutdoc;n67557 said:
Oh, one thing I have learned: if the perps are still in your home, tell the dispatcher you have a home invasion - use that term as it communicates the urgency of the situation. If the bad guys have left - report the burglary.

That is what I told my wife. Hopefully.... no next time!!
 
Wow, I can not imagine what was going through your head at that moment you flipped that deadbolt.

Especially KNOWING someone was in the house...creepy.

Glad all is well and the issues have been fixed!
 
Tailhunter;n67612 said:
How would you have handled it?

Give the thief orders. If he complies, great. If he runs, you have to let him go. If he charges, bullets are cheap.

It is amazing how many scenarios run through your mind after experiencing something like this. Especially how close I was to a face-to-face. Your description is how I think it would play out for me, but that assumes hands visible with no weapons visible. You just never know! All you can do is train, stay vigilante, and be as prepared as possible!
 
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HMP;n67631 said:
Wow, I can not imagine what was going through your head at that moment you flipped that deadbolt.

Especially KNOWING someone was in the house...creepy.

Glad all is well and the issues have been fixed!

The scary part was, that at the time I wasn't putting a whole lot of thought into it. I opened the door and moved forward without hesitation. But that was due more to adrenaline-charged ignorance than "protect-the-house-at-all-costs" bravery! My knees started shaking about an hour later after I had time to run through the events in my mind.

And THANKS!
 
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Thanks for sharing your story. Reinforces the importance of "scenario planning" for various intrusions.

None of us really know how we'll react until "it" happens. Better to try to think of, and plan for, as many possible scenarios as we can while our heart rates are under control.

I'd say you did pretty good and now benefit from the experience to handle a similar situation even better in the future.
 
One other thing that I forgot to mention....

The police officer said that our area of Concord had seen an increase in these types of break-ins. They were all pretty much "easy opportunity" thefts. Quick smash and grab of items that tend to be easy to sell/pawn for quick cash. I had overlooked an easy access that was exploited! Eliminating the easy access prevents the higher probability of being a victim! He also said that the vast majority of thefts were from vehicles that were left unlocked.
 
Glad you and yours are safe.

Some years back someone broke into our basement, we live pretty far out so LEO response was going to be long unless a deputy on his patrol route happened to be close. I did something a little different ... I quietly went out our front door and circled around on their entry point rather than open up the locked door down to our basement. I did so to keep a locked door between whatever was down there and my family. I was not quick enough (or they heard us moving around) to cut off their escape but I did get a decent description of the two and their truck.

While I didn't interact with them ... and I am glad I did not have to ... I did get that look. The Sheriff did not catch them for breaking in to my home but my info put them on to them and they got busted on three other break ins so I am happy at the overall result.
 
Set trip wires to prevent someone a quick escape next time. A few anti personel mines would be nice also, to bad they don't allow us to buy them. A pit trap on the other side of the fence might have worked well also. Do not take my suggestions they will get you in trouble. I would like to cut off hands of theives though it would be a great deterrent I think. Better than prison I bet. 2 strikes and you would need someone to scratch your balls for you, good luck with that.
 
Gutdoc;n67557 said:
Oh, one thing I have learned: if the perps are still in your home, tell the dispatcher you have a home invasion - use that term as it communicates the urgency of the situation. If the bad guys have left - report the burglary.

Years ago, my (now) wife was at home with a broken leg and some, um, bible salesmen, knocked on the door. She pulled back the curtain she saw them and they then proceeded to try to kick in the door but it held. Good solid 100 year old construction, they then tried to kick in the back door but that too held. They then opened a window and came in that way. Our dumbass friend downstairs put a window AC in his bedroom giving easy access. They came in and immediately tripped the motion sensor setting off the alarm and went right back out the window. My wife had hobbled upstairs and got locked in a bedroom. The alarm company called and asked if we wanted them to send the cops. My wife screamed, "yes, they're in the house, I need help". It took 45 minutes. Undoubtedly it was reported as a burglary alarm, it an active invasion.

Another lesson: don't rely on the alarm company to summon help if you ever need it.
 
noway2;n68421 said:
Another lesson: don't rely on the alarm company to summon help if you ever need it.

My wife and I both agreed to ALWAYS dial 911 in addition to ASSUMING the security company is doing the same thing!
 
Short Fuse;n68392 said:
Set trip wires to prevent someone a quick escape next time. A few anti personel mines would be nice also, to bad they don't allow us to buy them. A pit trap on the other side of the fence might have worked well also. Do not take my suggestions they will get you in trouble. I would like to cut off hands of theives though it would be a great deterrent I think. Better than prison I bet. 2 strikes and you would need someone to scratch your balls for you, good luck with that.

You forgot the punji sticks and deadfalls. LOL



MacA...I'm glad things worked out in your favor and that you've had an opportunity to refine your defenses.
 
What are people's thoughts on announcing that you're armed?
 
Since you had just gotten out of the shower, please tell me you did all this naked.


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B00ger;n68542 said:
Since you had just gotten out of the shower, please tell me you did all this naked.


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That's my big irrational fear. Having to fight an intruder naked....






...and him enjoying it.
 
Glad things went as well as they did! Good reflection on the event to determine preventive measures for the future. Thanks for sharing your story.
 
11B CIB;n68529 said:
What are people's thoughts on announcing that you're armed?

Where does the law require me to do that?? You've broken into my home, you're an intruder, expect to be shot. Repeatedly if required...
 
Bailey Boat;n68602 said:
Where does the law require me to do that?? You've broken into my home, you're an intruder, expect to be shot. Repeatedly if required...
Along those lines, I know you were being semi tongue in cheek, but where the hell does the damned government get off trying to tell anyone that they can't put boobytraps on their property? I'm sorry, but they can stick a cork in it and learn the meaning of "you don't have recognized authority here!" A criminal trespasser, including those operating under the farce of law, has no basis to believe that their transgression will be allowed to occur unimpeded and has no basis for complaint for anything that happens to them.
 
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11B CIB;n68547 said:
That's my big irrational fear. Having to fight an intruder naked....






...and him enjoying it.

What if you kept a viagra by the nightstand gun just for that extra bit of intimidation.
 
Bailey Boat;n68602 said:
Where does the law require me to do that?? You've broken into my home, you're an intruder, expect to be shot. Repeatedly if required...

I never said it did. Re-read the OPs post?

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As the door was opening, I yelled something to the effect of "I am armed and will shoot your ass!!
 
Folks: this was a routine burglary, probably a kid, tweaker, or crackhead (or combination), but this happened at a good time when an armed homeowner was around. Here's our OB ( order of battle) for the other times. This is utterly useless unless your kids and your wife will do the same things they're taught.

Determine your POD or Position of Dominance. Think "safe room" with channelized access ( hallway or sharp corner). Speak often, remind often, and look into their eyes when you say it; "this is where you go when things look iffy". Ever house has a POD, every room has an angle or cover or concealment, that is your POD. This is where you run to and fight from ! Once you have your POD, look at the doors or any other barriers they will have to get through to get to you. Don't forget to lock a door behind you; they earn you extra seconds. Once they clear that barrier, its FPF time. Your choices of tools, caliber, barriers, etc... is dependent upon your personal preferences and layout. I can tell you, don't expect your wife or teenage daughter to want to grab an AR or a shotgun for the first time when they've never expressed an interest ( But the M1 carbine was a big winner, I guess it just looks friendlier to a female; I'm good with them zinging the ballistic equivalent of a 357 magnum from point blank range, 30 times quickly). Don't forget to discuss shooting thru doors and walls. Modern construction does nothing to a round unless it hits a wall stud, at all.

After you have your POD planned, here's the OB.
1. Move to POD, closing any barriers you are rapidly able to.
2. Get armed and move to cover inside POD.
3. Call 911, let them know "there's someone inside my house, and I am armed". That's what makes it different; especially if a female is calling. You'll hear sirens running from miles away ! Don't call the alarm company, they're probably in another state anyway.
4. The dispatcher will want to keep talking to you; lay the phone down. Don't hang up, just lay it down. They can still hear everything in the room. Watch the doorknob on the barrier door instead.
5. You don't leave that room until you hear patrol units with sirens and loud cops coming thru the house towards you. Don't worry about shooting the cops by mistake, they will announce once they've heard the homeowner is armed. Patrol cops don't wanna get shot, and they don't want to shoot you; they will be announcing verbally and loudly as they clear your house and property.
6. Once you're sure that you have real loud cops outside your barrier door, lay your weapon down and pick up the phone; tell the dispatcher that you hear officer there, are coming out of the room, and thank the dispatcher.

Parting thoughts, for discussion ( talk amongst yourselves/ourselves):
A. When talking to your family, you can call it POD, safe room, run-to-room, whatever. My family isn't good with acronyms, they just know "this is where I go and this is my order of events after I'm there".
B. I'm not leaving out a 1200 dollar range gun for my wife or daughter to grab in the event of something happening. But, a 400 dollar glock, K-frame, SKS, or universal M1 carbine is no real loss in the event of it being stolen, damaged, or whatever. Please know; in the event of it's use, whatever they fire will go into evidence and be etched or marked with a permanent scribe. If it has blood or fluid on it, and it sits for 3 years; it will not look like it did when it went in. And, that's if you get it back or even want it back...
C. I live out in a rural area, so we have beater long guns for daily use. These are also used for the routine coons, dogs, possums, etc... that we get in the chicken/duck areas after dark every spring and fall. Flashlights and guns are inseparably trained, if you grab one you take the other. My family gets time using these, so their familiarity level under stress is developed. I have no problems with my wife grabbing a marlin 60 with 15 rounds if that's what happens to be closest, to help her get to something heavier in the POD. Be able to be armed reasonably quickly. It does them no good locked in a safe.
D. Also understand this; most burglaries or home invasions are by people you either know or people they know. And, most happen during the day, when Trump voters are at work. Don't display/discuss your security measures and teach your kids the same thing !!!!!
E. Forget what you see on TV, they're usually not going to do prints or impressions after a routine B&E when nobody was home and they only took your TV or weedeater. It will turn up in a pawnshop or crackhouse the next night anyway. Your having a serial number to add to the report is what catches them. Pawnshops are checked routinely for serial numbers. Please write these things down, they go straight into NCIC and is the only way you will recover your property. Those police auctions ? That's the stuff the owners didn't have the numbers for...

To the OP: Sir, I'm sorry this happened to you. Your reactions at the time are natural and understandable, and you did nothing wrong or different than 95% percent of us. I'm glad everything turned out well for you and no injuries occurred. I personally thank you for posting this as a thread. Even though this was clearly a burglary, it could have occurred at a less opportune time; I'm glad you were there to handle it appropriately. You did good. Everybody will second-guess things afterwards.

Flame on. I just posted this in the hopes of sparking one person to take some preventive action somewhere. Maybe it helps someone, sometime.
 
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xtp308;n68627 said:

Good post. My priority is getting from my bedroom to my son's room. I absolutely will retrieve/protect my child during a home invasion. I'll be tossing my wife the Glock and phone then snagging my rifle. I can patch holes in the walls and clean up blood.
 
Amen: you've clearly determined your channels of approach and a POD. Kinda what I would have expected from somebody with a good name including CIB.
 
noway2;n68618 said:
Along those lines, I know you were being semi tongue in cheek, but where the hell does the damned government get off trying to tell anyone that they can't put boobytraps on their property? I'm sorry, but they can stick a cork in it and learn the meaning of "you don't have recognized authority here!" A criminal trespasser, including those operating under the farce of law, has no basis to believe that their transgression will be allowed to occur unimpeded and has no basis for complaint for anything that happens to them.

There are multiple legal doctrines in play here. The one we are most familiar with is imminent threat; an automated device cannot assess whether there is an imminent threat, and if no victim is present, there is no imminent threat. It has been universally recognized in Western law for centuries that a human life, even that of a thief or tresspasser, is more valuable than anything he may steal or destroy.

There's the doctrine of "attractive nuisance", where a property owner is expected to take precautions to protect persons who may be attracted to something hazardous, e.g., climbing a radio tower, or diving into a flooded quarry pit. The person may be tresspassing, but that doesn't mean that his life is worthless while he's on the property. Some states allow a loophole here for "open and obvious hazards", but that doesn't apply to a booby trap, which by definition, is neither open nor obvious.

Edit to add: There was a recent court case in Florida where a homeowner knew who had been breaking into his garage but couldn't catch him. So he set up a bait trap; left the door unlocked (and did some other things to make it tempting, I cannot remember exactly what) and waited for him to break in, then shot the man. IIRC, homeowner has been charged and is pending trial. I think his downfall was that he told some of the neighbors he was going to do it ahead of time. I tried looking for this online but couldn't find the specifics right now.
 
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MostWanted;n68660 said:
There are multiple legal doctrines in play here. The one we are most familiar with is imminent threat; an automated device cannot assess whether there is an imminent threat, and if no victim is present, there is no imminent threat. It has been universally recognized in Western law for centuries that a human life, even that of a thief or tresspasser, is more valuable than anything he may steal or destroy.

For centuries? Maybe within the last 100 years or less, but stealing a man's livestock, etc, warranted hanging, because that was literally their life. Steal someone's property and they could very well starve as they are no longer able to provide for themselves.
 
B00ger;n68542 said:
Since you had just gotten out of the shower, please tell me you did all this naked.


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Sorry to disappoint you, but I had shorts on!
 
11B CIB;n68626 said:
I never said it did. Re-read the OPs post?

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Again, I didn't put a whole lot of thought into my actions at the time. I didn't feel it was "necessary". It is just what came out of my mouth as I opened the door.
 
MacA;n68699 said:
Again, I didn't put a whole lot of thought into my actions at the time. I didn't feel it was "necessary". It is just what came out of my mouth as I opened the door.

I'm not saying you're wrong. I was really trying to start a Pros/Cons of doing so discussion. It didn't work.
 
MostWanted when it comes to the idea of an "attractive nuisance", one has to a certain degree at least an obligation to own and act responsibly given the circumstances. For example, having a swimming pool on a postage stamp yard, it is reasonable to put a fence around it, but that might not reasonably apply in a much larger lot. As much as I am opposed to the nanny state, I see it as being similar to the idea of having a large breed dog and fencing them up in a small yard and not socializing them: it's irresponsible.

On the other hand, I take great exception to being told some thief's "life" is more important than anything they may take from me. That is just another person's opinion, possibly if not likely based on a religious view that I don't share. I have every right to protect my area as long as it is done with a propper degree of responsibility. For example, don't place explosive traps that will damage your neighbors' houses. By similar token, I no longer accept that justice should be a sole function of government because that system has proven to be a failure.
 
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Just like in my Bill of Sale threads, I will do exactly what the law requires, nothing more, nothing less. Since there is no law that requires me to "inform" you that I'm armed there will be no conversation. Same goes with the old famous "FREEZE SCUMBAG", you won't hear that either. Less talk, more do......
 
11B CIB;n68709 said:
I'm not saying you're wrong. I was really trying to start a Pros/Cons of doing so discussion. It didn't work.

The pro is that it worked in this particular instance. The con is that it might not work with a different thief or set of circumstances. It would be difficult to set a hard and fast rule of whether or not to verbalize. Sorta have to play it by ear, I think, especially if you can't see the BG like in the OP.
 
I usually go with " April Fools, MF'er"...

Just kidding, I read that Jim Cirillo claimed/disclaimed that line, I laugh every time I think about it used in a confrontation !
 
11B CIB;n68709 said:
I'm not saying you're wrong. I was really trying to start a Pros/Cons of doing so discussion. It didn't work.

I didn't think you were saying I was wrong. I appreciate your input. I just wanted to be clear for the discussion that without thinking I yelled as I entered the garage. Was I right or wrong to do it? Who knows. But from the bad-guy's hasty retreat, I guess he believed me.
 
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